When we were young, you hardly see the bra straps of women when they dressed, yet they were trendy and eye-popping.
Now, many of our women don’t only show the straps, half of the breasts are out. From the revealed cleavages, you can see that the breasts are tired and asleep, and you begin to wonder what the carrier is marketing!
Yesterday, I challenged a lady around me on such indecent dressing. In her church, she covers up everything as an usher but on Facebook, she is another thing. Her response: “Daddy, you know there is climate change. Heat everywhere and these two things need fresh air to breathe well.” I don’t agree with her.
I have seen several self-respecting women on Facebook never showing their bra straps, how much more cleavages or half breast. Are they not in Nigeria and heat no dey catch the two things?
I don’t know about you, but me Bola Adewara has little or no respect for women who think beauty and brilliance lie in showing their nakedness.
Today alone, I just finished deleting eleven people on my friends’ list who dressed indecently, without telling them. I don’t want to hurt them or make them feel I think too highly of myself. I just feel I am entitled to sanity on Facebook. I will still delete more.
It is within this matrix that I praise to high heavens you women who present your body on social media as a private and honoured estate, more so, a holy sacrifice unto the Lord.
Many church-goers, (the apostles of JUDGE NOT) will say God is concerned about our minds and not bodies. That is O’level Christianity. A’level Christianity will teach you that even your body matters to God.
When mothers, sorry women in their 40s and 50s take delight in dressing wayward on social media, would you ever be surprised to see their daughters going totally naked on the same media?
What bothers me again is what are the thoughts of the husbands and fathers when these women and daughters take and post these pictures? Perhaps such women are out of matrimony and so feel free to do anything they like. No true African man, I mean a man who controls or directs his house, will condone seeing any member of his family going haywire on social media. It simply says you have lost control!
Praise the Lord …